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For the last two years, Koen has routinely self-administered weekly testosterone injections without a second thought.

During that time, the trans 17-year-old said his self-image and school and family life has drastically improved. His fear of needles, too, has faded.

“[Transitioning] made me look forward to things more because now I can start paying attention to the better version of myself,” said Koen, who asked to be identified by his first name because of fears for his safety. “It’s something I feel like I’ve needed for a while. I’m able to express myself more fluidly and feel comfortable doing that, which I think is a very big step for me right now.”

At the start of the year, though, a greater worry emerged.

A new law banning gender-affirming care for minors in Louisiana took effect on Jan. 1 prohibiting puberty blockers, hormone treatment, and gender-reaffirming surgery. Now, Koen isn’t sure he could continue his hormone treatment.

Louisiana is one of 22 other states that have enacted laws restricting or banning gender-affirming medical care for minors, disrupting health care needs for trans and nonbinary people.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I'm 49.

I knew in 1978 that I was the wrong gender even though I didn't know what being trans was.

I come from a conservative CATHOLIC British/Irish family living in small town Canada. Went to catholic school and everything. Needless to say I got ZERO help.

The first time I tried to kill myself I was 9. It wasn't until 2020 and covid that I actually sat down and realized I need to do something because if I die of covid (autoimmune disorders) I will die never being happy and I WANT to be happy.

Unfortunately my realizations came at the same time americans decided to go full nazi and all I get when reaching out to trans communities is those communities being bombarded with attacks from american nazis.

I wish I could have transitioned when I was a kid, it would have saved me from 40+ years of pain and suffering. Ironically before I can take the steps medically to feel better I actually have to repair the damage caused by 30 years of anti depressants and anti psychotics used as a Band-Aid trying to fix my mental health without dealing with the root issue which is gender dysphoria likely caused by being neurodivergent (which was something that wasn't discovered until a few years ago).

Children shouldn't have to suffer the way we older generations had to suffer. The brain cannot be reprogrammed, it's hardwired, someone who is trans can't stop being trans any more than someone can stop being autistic or having adhd.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 8 months ago

I wish you all the luck in the world and hope we're able to do something about the slime oppressing you and other trans people.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

Thank you so much for sharing your story 💖

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Love ya, friendo