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Some great responses that I can't beat here. But a little more perspective: For me, when I'm overwhelmed, and feeling existential, it always comes back to one thing. I'm trying too much. Many people solve this by giving up. But the real answer is to try harder with fewer things.

For example, "someday no one in the world will remember you". Is being remembered forever actually something you should try and achieve? How about just making an impact in your loved ones lives? How about contributing something to society (like your career) that will outlive you, even if no one remembers who did it.

Rather than trying to make your life what it "should be" , make goals to forge a life that's better for you. These should be realistic steps towards becoming content with what you have. Everything else is gravy. Maybe you will end up talked about forever.

Remember, goals can point you in the right direction, but don't sweat meeting them exactly. Life throws curve balls and you will adapt. Remember to appreciate the moment you're in. Then when you desire purpose, your goals will remind you which way to go.