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To answer the question implied ( how do lovers with non-hetero bits get it on? ) the answer is any way they can. The sex is not about making sure the parts fit but engaging in physical intimacy and expressing love (or at least extreme horniness) for each other, and so any given couple is going to figure something out, even if its frottage or oral or whatever.
That's really confusing for me since in German we have a seperated word for engaging in physical intimacy/extreme horniness that excludes sex. The closest to that in English would be to make out with someone.
petting?
Oh. Yeah. Forgot about that. I looked up "rummachen" and there wasn't a good translation
petting is sexual intercourse without penetration but not without having an orgasm though. so 'rummachen' is definitly different.
I actually didn't knew that, but at least its wayyy closer than "making out"
"Grinding?"
come again?