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[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

So, like, I literally don’t care if someone identifies as whatever gender. You do you.

Just don’t tell me how to do me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

OP you need help

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Ability to wear adorable clothes

I already do that. No reason for transitioning.

Fuck social norms.

Fuck the police.

And fuck you.

aggressively flings fluffy scarf over the shoulder

[–] [email protected] -2 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I never understood how people get so stuck in-denial, I mean ask yourself, is there really something so wrong with being a girl. Really what is so bad abut that to you that you'll intentionally and repeatedly deny who you are to yourself? I wish you luck sis and I hope you can come out to yourself and be happy one day.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

...are you trying to tell them what their gender should be?

[–] [email protected] -2 points 4 months ago (2 children)

This person is clearly in-denial, I'm not saying they should or shouldn't be anything, it's just obvious they aren't entirely cis if you catch my drift.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

At first I thought this was a light hearted shit post but god you talk like a Jehovah's witness

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago

Comments like yours make me wish we had awards, lmao.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Maybe they need therapy to help convert them.

Oh wait.

Maybe let people exist, eh?

[–] [email protected] -1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Don't compare cracking someone's egg to conversion therapy, they are not the same, cracking people's eggs saves lives, it frees them from denial and allows them to be happy as their authentic self. Conversion therapy tries to force people deeper into denial. This is such a rotten and transphobic argument.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You are not the arbiter of who is or is not trans. You are free to help someone come to the realization that they may be trans, but do not invalidate their identity in the process.

Gender expression is a spectrum, and just because someone isn't 100% gender conforming doesn't automatically make them trans.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are, helping them come out of the egg and break the denial that prevents them from being their most legitimate selves.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

It is not invalidating their identity it is helping discover who they really are

Literally indistinguishable from transphobe rhetoric.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago

Sure, you can jump gender if you feel like it, but you're replying to a person who transcended those silly boundaries without immediately constraining themselves to a different one. I suspect they are next level happy.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

how do I filter out trans posting

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Curate your own feed by blocking users.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Too many Lemmy users for that to be practical

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Then Lemmy might not be the platform you're looking for.