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What opinion just makes you look like you aged 30 years

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Single player modes in games shouldn't require internet connection.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Digital privacy is important, and it's important to be anonymous on the internet

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I don't want to have a subscription for everything. It used to be possible to pay a one-time fee for software and use it as long as I want. Now I have to pay a monthly fee and once I finish paying, I can't use the software anymore. And it's not like I constantly get updates for the software. Often it stays the same for months or years.

I understand that software has a price, but no way these prices are sometimes justified...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I'm not subscribing to anything. If I buy something, it's fully functional, and it's mine. There is no ongoing relationship between me and the manufacturer. Done.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Music in restaurants and bars is just too loud. I know why the music is loud, but I am still going to shake my fist at it like Grandpa Simpson.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Algorithms that try to suggest me content are universally bad, and all searches should provide results based solely on the terms, syntax, and language entered. Same with anything that tries to provide me content based on data harvested about my location or demographic.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

GIVE ME BACK MY DAMN 3.5MM HEADPHONE JACK ON MY PHONE!!!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Cars shouldn't be loaded with user-facing technology. Bring back analog dashboards and buttons for climate control!

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It was totally uncool to remove the headphone jack from my device, man.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I doubt you'll find anyone here that disagrees with you. I was going to get an older pixel but I got a 6 instead and I'm still grieving the loss of my headphone jack.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Smart tech in general is annoying and dumb. I want my TV to just be a tv with inputs, I don't need built in firmware and updates to shove ads in my face. I don't want my car to have a touch screen to adjust the A/C, just give me a knob or buttons.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I DO NOT WANT MY TV TO HAVE A FUCKING CAMERA OR A MICROPHONE

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

We need electric vehicles with the interiors and exteriors copied from consumer cars from the 90s.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Like that Hyundai concept? That thing was rad. I'd drive the hell out of an EV that looks like an AE86.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

:) or πŸ™‚ is nice and not passive-agressive

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I have three:

  • They don't make things like they used to
  • We don't need all these damned computers in everything
  • Modern music sounds like crap

I'm 17.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think two out of those believes stem from survivorship bias. You think of old music and consumer products as superior because the only ones that "survived" are the good ones. No one remembers bad music from 50 years ago, and for every old thermos flask/blender/knife that you see around there are dozens that broke years ago.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I say yes for the music one, maybe not for the first. There are literally different materials being used and increasingly optimised-for-profit-to-effort-ratio processes. Many things are just straight up made more cheaply because we have the technology to do that.

Although for the music one, a relevant lyric comes to mind:

Hip hop? Buddy, don't get me started

So how do you get yourself charted?

Kids love this stuff 'cause it's so new

Put in a sample from a pop song too

You've got a hit, how come it sold?

The melody and it's 30 years old!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hip hop is pretty mainstream now but it started as counter culture. And I don't think a sample in a song makes it similar to the sampled song. A lot of tracks that rely on samples completely create something new. Look at J Dilla who relied almost entirely on samples. His music isn't a collection of old songs, it's entirely new songs. I guess this thread is for boomer takes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Or the Prodigy, who relied almost entirely on samples yet made some of the most exciting music we had ever heard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Things should be made to last and not be made to intentionally break after a short time.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

how is that a boomer opinion?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

When I was a kid, I could go out and play with other kids on the streets, without fear of being snatched or hit by a car or worse. We made Judas ragdolls before Easter just to burn them, and use them for practical jokes. We used to play some child version of cricket, I've even broke a window of a neighbour doing it.

Children nowadays do not do any of those things dammit. What the fuck? How exactly are you growing up without leaving home? For some it's lack of desire, but for most of them it's outright lack of possibility.

Screw this shit. The world is becoming worse.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

CLI > GUI on PC.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As a person who works in tech and is an early adopter for almost every new gizmo out there, I feel that we were better off back in the day when stuff was all analog and things were done manually.

Sure it was inconvenient, but it made us experience the world more and actually interacted with real people. I have crappy social skills and I have seen the change in myself over the years. I get anxious when my phone rings now, as opposed to being excited back in the day.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

This makes me think of a quote by Kurt Vonnegut:

β€œI work at home, and if I wanted to, I could have a computer right by my bed, and I’d never have to leave it. But I use a typewriter, and afterward I mark up the pages with a pencil. Then I call up this woman named Carol out in Woodstock and say, β€œAre you still doing typing?” Sure she is, and her husband is trying to track bluebirds out there and not having much luck, and so we chitchat back and forth, and I say, β€œOkay, I’ll send you the pages.” Then I go down the steps and my wife calls, β€œWhere are you going?” β€œWell,” I say, β€œI’m going to buy an envelope.” And she says, β€œYou’re not a poor man. Why don’t you buy a thousand envelopes? They’ll deliver them, and you can put them in the closet.” And I say, β€œHush.” So I go to this newsstand across the street where they sell magazines and lottery tickets and stationery. I have to get in line because there are people buying candy and all that sort of thing, and I talk to them. The woman behind the counter has a jewel between her eyes, and when it’s my turn, I ask her if there have been any big winners lately. I get my envelope and seal it up and go to the postal convenience center down the block at the corner of Forty-seventh Street and Second Avenue, where I’m secretly in love with the woman behind the counter. I keep absolutely poker-faced; I never let her know how I feel about her. One time I had my pocket picked in there and got to meet a cop and tell him about it. Anyway, I address the envelope to Carol in Woodstock. I stamp the envelope and mail it in a mailbox in front of the post office, and I go home. And I’ve had a hell of a good time. I tell you, we are here on Earth to fart around, and don’t let anybody tell you any different.”

I really believe that part of the loneliness and lack of community many people feel nowadays can be attributed to automating everything for convenience. We miss out on these brief interactions and meaningless smalltalk, giving us less chance to practice our social skills in low-stakes situations. I see the change even in myself; in my college days I didn't really experience much social anxiety since I was always surrounded by people, but now I sometimes find a quick trip to the grocery store somewhat difficult. It's really troubling to think about, and it makes me long for the analog past.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Dating should go back to face to face meetings. People need to get out and see others more, just generally.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No thank you. I can barely stand hearing somebody through a wall, why would I want to see them too?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Because dating hopefully takes place with individuums, to whom this limitation does not apply.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

let me see:

  • physical media is Just Better (cds, game cards, etc.)
  • the Internet is a technological dumpster fire
  • devices are too "smart" nowadays
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't think this is a boomer opinion but I got called a boomer for it once so maybe it is idk:

I think online dating is shit and I don't mean it in a "It doesn't work for me" kinda way but I believe it's objectively shit. In an ever faster world that demands more and more flexibility from people that also extends to dating. It introduces a certain arbitrariness to romantic and sexual relationships. We now have dating apps that you can use to scroll through potential partners like a furniture catalog. It reduces people to a commodity and I hate being confronted with that. I believe it could in combination with the realities of late stage combination harm our ability to establish deep and meaningful connections to people.

It's literally what my mom warned me off 20 years ago and now I believe she was right.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I use an iPod and physical media for most of my music

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Not meeting up with friends at a loud venue, I like to talk to them not try to shout over the music.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)
  • The internet was way better before it became a giant shopping mall.
  • Those cars that don't have the flecks in the paint look like children's toys.

Then, I have a couple that pre-date even boomers by many years πŸ˜…:

  • Handkerchiefs kick the shit out of paper tissues.
  • Cars have made the world a worse place.
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Handkerchiefs are the bomb. I carry one everywhere I go (when I don't forget πŸ₯²). Really feel like they could make a comeback with the right marketing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Notifications fucking suck, if it isn't either my alarm or my grandma's emergency button, my phone ain't gonna do a damn thing to alert me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Sneaker culture is incredibly weird. Shoes made by children in China with a limited edition color are in such high demand that there are sites where people refresh F5 constantly hoping to have the honor to pay hundreds and hundreds for shoes that cost $7.50 to make. Then half of the time people won't even wear them outside, they'll put them in a bag and change shoes when they get to work or whatever. Or some might not even wear the shoes at all and just display them.

I'm an old soul in this sense. I love a quality goodyear welted shoe, and made in USA, UK, or Italy usually. An Allen Edmonds strandmok is a fantastic everyday shoe for me. I like to purchase nice things in general, use them, take care of them. I really hate throwaway culture as well.

Please nobody hate me for this, I'm a bit self conscious being an admin of my own instance and don't want to piss people off haha. If you're into gym shoe culture that's awesome. If I knew you in real life I'd probably make fun of you for a minute if I saw you walking outside in socks carrying your $400 limited edition sneakers, but then you can make fun of me for one of the thousands of things I do and it's all in good fun.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Nobody should be able to profit off boring industries. Utility (power, water, telephony (which includes internet), banking, insurance.

Cap the profits at an arbitrary number that keeps up with inflation and allows for expanding business basic needs like staffing and inventory. Large investments should be reviewed and approved by regulating bodies and monies allocated and investments must be met with progress goals that achieve the completion of the project in full. None of this "Thanks for the monies, lol bye" bullshit.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Emphatically agree. I'm not really anti-free-market, but in the absence of informed consumer choice, all you have is de facto monopolies.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's worse - they are natural monopolies. I don't need to run fiber to my house from 3 different ISPs any more than I want to run pipes from 3 different water supply companies. Utilities like electricity are already regulated with price controls and some semblance of democratic oversight. It's time that internet hookups are too.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Do not share your name online.

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