Malfeasant

joined 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I live in the Phoenix area - if it ever gets down to 32°F I'm dancing in the street.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I wouldn't classify 0°C as very cold, just cold. 0°F definitely deserves the very.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"tiny homes" ... literally the only thing that's not massively overpriced.

Oh no, they're definitely overpriced too.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Ok, there's a lot here so I'm going to try to address it all without losing my train of thought and going off on too many tangents...

For one, I don't think food pickiness translates at all to general adventurousness. Our daughter will try anything food-wise, but she's a chicken otherwise. Fortunately she's not quite as stubborn as our son, and she's also a show-off, so she'll overcome her fear if it gives her something to brag about.

I was a pretty picky eater as a child too, but I would also leave the house and do my own thing way past when I was expected to come home, much to the chagrin of whichever parent I was living with at the time. My dad would just send me to bed with no TV if I didn't eat what was presented, which was a pretty big motivator to me at the time, as well as trying to make me feel bad for insulting his ability to cook. I remember swordfish that was like leather, and scallops like rubber... I'll never try either of those things now. My mom on the other hand would go apeshit if I didn't eat her food, there were more than a few times she would force feed me, just one of many ways she illustrated the line between discipline and abuse by stepping over it ...

Anywho... We can't really do the whole "eat it or you go hungry" thing with our son because he was born with a heart defect that makes it hard for him to gain weight, and that's the one thing he needs to do to overcome it. He just turned 7, and while his height is about average, his weight is about that of a 5 year old. He's a noodle.

I don't think being forced to try new foods when you're young makes you more likely to try new foods as you get older, you just get more ok with trying new foods as you get older regardless.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Oblige pickiness in boys? They'll be picky as men.

I feel like this isn't necessarily a bad thing... My son is super picky, and it's annoying for sure, but it doesn't deserve to be in the same list as dishonesty or aggression... It means he knows what he likes and won't let anyone push him into something he's not comfortable with. He'll try new things on occasion, but he has to be ready for it, if we push him he just digs in and refuses to budge. I've had the best results with "hey bud, want to try this? It's really good" and when he says no, "suit yourself, more for me." It doesn't work often, but when it does, it sticks. New food option unlocked. My wife will bargain with him, and she gets him to try stuff, but only to get what she's offering, even if he ends up liking it, he needs to keep up the appearance that he doesn't because it's been made into such a big deal...

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

If we're thinking about banging the green M&M, we're not thinking of her as tasty chocolate candy.

Hey, speak for yourself.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Women are so cute and cute and cute and cute and cute and...

(My auto complete seems to be stuck in a rut...)

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Just to be the man who died 12000 times to .. rise up at your door? Bbbrains...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Holy poeslaw Batman!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (5 children)

It just bugs me the wording "wrongly questioned" - it's never wrong to question, you just have to be prepared to accept answers.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Noted. When I develop an essential piece of software, I will name it George.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

"Stuck with"? I find open source alternatives far less infuriating to work with than anything Microsoft produces.

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