The issue isn’t with you, it’s with common experiences women have had with men.
And that's exactly the problem. I'm not those men. I have no intention of acting like those men. Yet I'm still scared that I'm going to get pepper sprayed anyway just for asking a woman for directions.
A bear isn't trying to find a dating partner in a human woman...
You're sick in the head if you think being depressed over being labelled an existential threat makes me dangerous.