girltwink

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Based. Top4top is the most genuine and violent form of love.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 10 months ago (1 children)

She thinks it's hot

[–] [email protected] 33 points 10 months ago (8 children)

I like calling my trans gf a trap 😌

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (2 children)

The only reason antibiotic resistant germs are different than regular germs is that antibiotics don't work on them, which doesn't matter if you don't use antibiotics! 😆

Her reasons are more vague and appeal-to-nature-y. But you do raise a good point.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago

It's a precious gift. I look for the others who care too much and then hold them close 🥹

[–] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago (11 children)

Relatable. I love a girl like this. It's exhausting and it's slowly impacted my own sanity, but it's not her fault. It's mainly about germs with her. She gets really upset if we don't wash our hands every 15 minutes or so. But at the same time, she's afraid of antibiotics.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I don't think you're understanding my point. Trans-ness is, for me, defined by gender dysphoria. Gender dysphoria, by its very definition, is the pain i experience by not looking like a cis woman. Visibility is not a thing i want to celebrate. Visibility is the affliction.

Can everyone be stealth? No, absolutely not, and being trans should be normalized. But i still feel very uncomfortable with my debilitating endocrine disorder being used as a point of pride, in the same way gay pride is.

I'm gay, and I'm out and proud of that. I love being visibly gay. But being trans is different because it's not a thing i want to be.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (4 children)

So that trans youth growing up see trans adults in their community

When i was a teenager back in the early 00s, i went to a trans support group. It largely consisted of older transitioners, age 50+, who were not living good lives, through no fault of their own. But it was a very dark experience for me. I expected that my life would play out like theirs, and i would join the 41% club. I never thought that I'd get to experience just being a regular girl, and that part still seems surreal a decade later.

This is a common experience for young trans people seeking support. This is "trans visibility" and it harmed me profoundly. What would've been really nice back then were successful role models who make their trans-ness an incidental detail. We have those now, and they're not what I'd call "visible" to cis people, although they don't hide who they are.

so that trans adults see older trans people.

I'm still waiting to find older rolemodels. Most of us are really sad when we get older. I don't know how similar this is to the general lgbt population, but I'm concerned. My goal is to build a little family, and then just live a quiet life and keep each other close.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Hi trashgirlfriend, your username is cute, will you marry me so we can have a short, toxic marriage with lots of good sex and domestic violence?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

The strongest indicator that shoes will work for you, according to the research is... Do they feel good? I'd suggest going to a running store and trying on different brands and jogging around the store. Once you find a comfy pair, you probably chose well.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

That was my immediate thought. This is obviously the output of an LLM.

Prompt: "list the ways the 1% (or the most affluent and powerful segment of society) is actively preventing true ownership of the things we buy"

[–] [email protected] 20 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Lmao that's a really good analogy. If i had extra nipples, i wouldn't want "extra nipples day of visibility" but i also wouldn't want anyone to make a big deal about me taking my shirt off at the beach.

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