If you don’t want people to see you as being against/for said things, don’t say you are

So if a person is against something he shouldn't express his opinion? What about freedom of speech? I basically said "good thing that children of 12 years old can't go into the transition process, a process that can mutilate them for life for a choice they are not ready to make" I was LITERALLY called a "insecure, pro slavery, against women be able to vote, anti civil rights and pro totalitarianism", I was surprised to not being called a "bigot" but there are a few comments that i haven't read yet. How in the world is this behaviour ok? The people who said that to me, including the people who brainlessly upvoted them are toxic and moreover are promoting a toxic behaviour.

Why LGBT people want to their opinion respected and then proceed to not respect other people opinion? When i posted the comment I was fully aware of the outcome and just wanted to prove a point. (BTW i was hoping for a less toxic community at least here on Lemmy, i was proved wrong sadly).

Also it is widely agreed that trans won’t compete competitively in professional sports for women

Yeah, they should be banned unfortunately just a few days ago a transgender man won Miss Netherlands. How come it is widely agreed and then LGBT community doesn't speak up against this? I am genuinely asking, i'm trying to have a pacefull conversation here, but I still need to dodge insults...