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[–] [email protected] 140 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Discord for large communities is dumb as shit. There's literally too many people that real communication becomes impossible unless you move to DMs or an empty room.

[–] [email protected] 60 points 8 months ago

so. much. this.

Discord is just an AOL chat room. Great for short-term conversations among 20 or fewer people. It's not a good place to store your FAQ. It's not a good place for large teams. It's not a good place for anything searchable. It's transactional. And I don't know why people treat it otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

Yeah, I hate discord for many reasons but the primary reason is that I just think it is a terrible place to have a conversation. All the channels I see are always dominated by really low quality effort interaction, interesting conversations just get drowned out and lost by someone sharing another meme or responding to someone else's low effort meme.

As someone with pretty intense ADHD, Discord is just so fragmented with so many channels each with their own conversations all fracturing out in different directions with no capacity to keep a handle on it. I hate it.

Fuck Discord

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago (3 children)

or interesting convos have a mod chime in and ruin it

"hey guys can we move this conversation to x-chat"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

God I can't stand servers that are Nazis for that. Guess what...natural conversation will change topics over time. I'm sorry I can't keep up which of your 100 channels I need to jarringly break away from the convo and hop into whenever the topic even remotely, slightly drifts from what it started with. Discord channel Nazis don't understand how human conversation works.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Right and when you step back and think about it, why create a conversation system that demands so much admin for moderators? A reddit-like system obviously still desperately needs good human moderation but the moment to moment guidance of conversation focus doesn’t require a human mod to always interject to refocus things, just an engaged and genuine audience.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

or or how about guilded? no? mabye revolt? no agian? element? wait what XMPP?!?!! are you sure that haS group chat? ok....

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I love discord for small communities, not that I have that many I'm in though. But friend groups, and niche topics. Places where the chat generally is a single discussion or two at a single point in time. And the voice chat is superb. Just drop in and out is convenient.

But it sure as fuck doesn't compete with what reddit and Lemmy is doing.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 8 months ago (1 children)

To be honest even for small communities I just find discord an extremely difficult format to follow., especially because search of previous conversations is an afterthought (????!???!??).

I think it is easy to miss how powerful the reddit type thread structure is among the noise of how toxic and shitty reddit itself can be. I love lemmy because I think the reddit type thread structure is in most ways a direct upgrade to message boards/forums. The problem with message boards was that as a thread gets longer the probability increases steadily to 100% that the thread will be utterly derailed by people arguing over the most trivial detail of the conversation. This seems like a weird thing to empathize, but consistently I would find a thread on a message board that felt like a goldmine of interesting information and ALWAYS I would find to my consternation that the last three pages to the thread were people arguing over some stupid fact one of the commenters used incorrectly early on in the thread to make some ancillary side point.

The Reddit structure smoothly siphons off these side conversations and allows the wisdom of the crowd to direct the focus of the conversation through upvotes and downvotes. Does the Reddit structure get petty, toxic and judgemental? Yes, but I think it still qualifies as a near direct improvement on messageboards if the objective of the messageboard is to be a curated source of expert/niche conversations. Lemmy is awesome, you can learn so much just from reading quality comments sections.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Definitely. The comment structure is what got me into reddit in the first place. I love that Lemmy uses it as well.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Yeah and it is easy to think of Lemmy as a shadow of Reddit because it is so much smaller, but even if for the foreseeable future that is highly unlikely to change, now is the first time the form of messageboard popularized by Reddit can finally grow and evolve beyond whatever limited vision the company that owns Reddit has and that is huge. We are in a new era of social media. Now anybody can experiment with tweaking the Reddit form by adding this, taking away that, changing how upvotes or downvotes work… who knows?

This is just the VERY beginning of exploring the space of social network structures like Reddit and it is going to be awesome. People don’t get excited for new social networks anymore (corporations have made them so repulsive and unhealthy) but this is a super exciting time of innovation and evolution in the different ways we bring humans together in conversations online.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I spend a lot of time in the r/furry discord server

It's a wonderful place to just chat. Imo, discord is fine as a chatroom

[–] [email protected] -1 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

What is yikes about hanging around with furries?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (2 children)

You know you're in the strange corner of the internet when this isn't getting disliked to hell lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I mean, fuck all those other corners then

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

Fuck those corners while wearing a fur suit, you mean

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Perhaps made even more so by having been highlighted by a username such as yours, /u/cum.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago

Furries are awesome people.