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make sure you ask your trans/non binary friends what they do and don't like to be called 😊 it can mean a lot, if your unaware

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 7 months ago (1 children)

There’s a difference between “I treat dude as a gender neutral term” and “I will not be respecting your direct request” though.

One is an opinion, the other is a statement of intent. You can both treat dude as a gender neutral term in your daily life, and respect someone’s wish to not be referred to as dude. They are not mutually exclusive.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Big agree, I just wish others in the comments knew this instead of being chuds about it