Man the ones I grew up with were far far far more racist than the ones yall had.
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"watch the ficus" - telling somebody to be more careful after they do something clumsy like tripping or nearly dropping something. I used it in front of some friends once and got confused looks. Apparently grandma used to have a potted ficus tree and used to tell me to watch it when I was playing close to it, so it stuck as a saying in the family.
haha awesome. So concise, it does sound like a wise saying
A Dutch one I got from my Oma: "It's as if the angels upon my tongue have pissed". It means "yum".
Alsof er een engeltje over je tong pist.
The last one's very similar to a german saying: "Was man nicht im Kopf hat, muss man in den Beinen haben."
That literally translates to "What you don't have in your head, you have to have in your legs."
Yeah my family (mostly my grandma) used that one too but in Dutch. Wat je kop vergeet moeten de benen ontgelden.
We have your last example in Croatia, usually told as: "they who don't have it in the head, have it in the legs"
"Dead meat is hung, live meat is hanged." Turns out most people's grandma's aren't radical leftist english teachers.
My mom often used two:
"Useless as tits on a bull" (often referencing her husband, my dad)
And also, "shit fire and save matches", which I never understood to actually have a meaning, it was more like just an exclamation of surprise.
the former is a common, universal phrase.
"like tits on a bull" as a slightly shorter version.
shit fire and save matches
If a frog had wings it wouldn't bump it's ass when it jumped.
I've heard these used when someone says something nonsensical, just as a completely worthless reply.
Worst case Ontario!
to be fair if you could shit fire that you would save a lot of matches.
My dad used the shit fire expression. I also don't know of an actual meaning.
To correct someone from saying "so" too much:
"Sew buttons on ice cream"
"Hey" too much:
"Hay is for horses"
"Well" too much:
"Well, well, well - that's three holes in the ground"
Micromanage much?!?!
"Hay is for horses" is universal. I do agree that these are all dumb though.
I like the some in conversation says "but hey..."
I quickly interject "Butt hay is for butt horses"
Dad humor.
Funny my grandad had a little rhyme related to your ketchup effect:
"If you do not shake the bottle, none'll come and then a lot'll"
Clearly ketchup bottles have been a bigger influence on culture than we realised
DEGUSTIBUSNONESTDISPUTANDUM
not sure I spelled it right, means "regarding personal tastes, there is no dispute"
Also another good one, "moderation in everything, including moderation."
I think the full phrase is De gustibus non disputandum in contradictorium (declinations might be off somewhere)
I always say "moderation in everything, including moderation" often as well
Slickern owlshit
"Life's tough. It's even tougher when you're stupid."
-my grandfather quoting a line from a John Wayne movie I think.
"If you're gonna be stupid, you've gotta be tough," is one I've heard.
Lol well this reminds me of what my Hodor sized buddy's foreman used to say about him, "Thank God he can lift a ton cuz he can't fucking spell it." π€£
You better finish your dinner, don't you know there are starving children in Africa?
Were you born in the 1970s? Both me and my wife heard that exact same sentence from our mothers.
that persisted well into the 90s at least
Yup. We also might come from the "step on a crack, break your mother's back" generation?
βDoes a hawks arse pucker in a power dive?β When someone asked a question that had an unequivocal answer of yes. Similar to does a bear shit in the woods,
My Grandmother used to say "It's better than a kick in the teeth" when deflecting disappointment in an outcome--putting a positive spin on a negative. Being from the UK it seemed universal, but moving to Canada and saying that, people gave me odd looks.
The other one is when somebody is talking nonsense or a bit crazy, they would say "They are out of their tree". For the Welsh the tree symbolizes stability and mental wellness (druids I guess) and if you were stressed or needed to chill their phrase translates to "I need to go back to my trees"
I used to hear 'better than a poke in the eye with a blunt stick'
Whatever the fuck that means
My family's was "beats a sharp stick in the eye."
Not a family saying, but my grandad used this joke soooo often:
Q: What's the difference between a snake in the grass and a goose?
A: A snake in the grass is an asp in the grass, but a grasp in the ass is a goose!
My folks liked to purposefully mix metaphors, so instead of saying "The worm has turned", they'd say, "The shoe has turned" and "The worm is on the other foot".
I'm sure there's an origin somewhere, but since I don't know it, the call-out for doing something particularly dumb was, "Why don't you just ram your face into my fist?" (suggesting your stupidity was impressive, but not worth the actual bother of 'punishing' you for it, especially given you were probably stupid enough to punish yourself).
Mixed metaphor dad jokes are classic, I really enjoy them.
Does the Pope shit in the woods!?!
I guess we gotta burn that bridge when we come to it.
You might already heard this one but I didn't learn until a relatively recent internet meme that its only here in Norway that something being "complete texas" means its completely chaotic and messy.
Also I'm using "what the fir forest" ("hva i granskauen") as a replacement for "what the hell" and I have no idea where I've picked it up.. Nobody else around me do, not even family. Works just as fine though against pain and annoyances.
If you get hung in a rut, you better lock those hubs in. Cat get your tail out the fire!