this post was submitted on 11 Oct 2023
886 points (96.5% liked)

Ask Lemmy

25937 readers
986 users here now

A Fediverse community for open-ended, thought provoking questions


Rules: (interactive)


1) Be nice and; have funDoxxing, trolling, sealioning, racism, and toxicity are not welcomed in AskLemmy. Remember what your mother said: if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. In addition, the site-wide Lemmy.world terms of service also apply here. Please familiarize yourself with them


2) All posts must end with a '?'This is sort of like Jeopardy. Please phrase all post titles in the form of a proper question ending with ?


3) No spamPlease do not flood the community with nonsense. Actual suspected spammers will be banned on site. No astroturfing.


4) NSFW is okay, within reasonJust remember to tag posts with either a content warning or a [NSFW] tag. Overtly sexual posts are not allowed, please direct them to either [email protected] or [email protected]. NSFW comments should be restricted to posts tagged [NSFW].


5) This is not a support community.
It is not a place for 'how do I?', type questions. If you have any questions regarding the site itself or would like to report a community, please direct them to Lemmy.world Support or email [email protected]. For other questions check our partnered communities list, or use the search function.


Reminder: The terms of service apply here too.

Partnered Communities:

Tech Support

No Stupid Questions

You Should Know

Reddit

Jokes

Ask Ouija


Logo design credit goes to: tubbadu


founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

I know I can nail the technical questions but I'm worried that i look sleazy.

The additional context wasn't necessary but I wanted to see how the photo posts are formatted for lemmy

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] [email protected] 98 points 11 months ago (7 children)

Yeah you're right, I don't usually wear this and it does feel weird. The pants, belts and shirt combined were only 40 dollars so I was really worried it would look cheap.

I appreciate the advice immensely.

[–] [email protected] 110 points 11 months ago

You look good. Have interviewed tons of people in my time. What you put together should be fine.

And if that's not good enough for some places you probably don't want to work at them anyway.

[–] [email protected] 51 points 11 months ago

It's not about the cost of the clothing, it's about the intent to appear professional at an interview. Trying is good.

I've seen people rock up to interviews wearing hoodies and tracksuit pants. So yeah dressing appropriately shows you're interested.

You look good! Good luck

[–] [email protected] 37 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I’m 8 years into the IT space and got my start at a help desk as well. Now I’m running a team for a large international company.

I’m not sure if Lemmy supports DM’s as I haven’t explored it much but please feel free to reach out to me with any questions etc and I’d be happy to give you some tips! You got this boss. 💪

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (1 children)

8 years in IT? you must be handsome AND talented, king

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago

6 years in IT here. Went from service desk to NAS lead. It’s not talent…it’s more of what a Fortune 500 company will spend on you to develop internally. At least in my experience.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Another older fart here. As others have said, you look good! Wearing it a few times to get used to it is a great tip.

Especially since they are inexpensive clothes, if you need to clean them, wash and dry them carefully. Dunno your setup, but make sure the washer is set to cold or the low side of warm. Dry medium and don’t over dry. If the washer and dryer have a “permanent press” setting, that should work ok. Immediately hang them; don’t let them sit in the dryer.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Looks sharp, I learned a little too late to do the "Military Tuck" when the sides got a bit bunched up. It can really help clean up the look with non tailored shirts.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I appreciate this advice, since my wedding is coming up soon and I'm thinking this might be an issue with my shirts. Would I need a belt to make this work? I'm planning on wearing suspenders.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

I am not sure. I think as long as your waistband has enough tension to hold the fold in place it should work. Otherwise you may need a belt. Congrats on the wedding.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

If you have time to take your clothes to a tailor they can make it fit much better. It’ll usually only cost around $8-15 and it made a huge difference in how I feel in my clothes

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

I wouldn’t worry that it looks cheap, it looks like you’re putting in effort to look professional which matters more.

And also it doesn’t look cheap to me.