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When I signed up for Lemmy, I didn't know about some wars that existed between instances, and when I chose lemmy.ml I thought, “Why not?”. Tbh, dont think too much about instances.

I signed up because I wanted to get the full Lemmy experience, but I don't know if some instances block the instance I'm connected , and this is a bit confusing for me. At the beginning, when I joined Lemmy, I remember reading that it is advisable to choose the instance carefully, and I even assume that it was my mistake, but I think it could be a little easier for those who enter the fediverse. I guess. Know nothing at this time.

So, the question is there. Do you judge members by instance? I'm just a normal guy; I don't like the extreme right or extreme communism. In fact, I think all extremism is stupid. But , if you could enlighten me on this, I would appreciate it.

At this point, I don't know if I'm blocked by some instances or not. Basically, I want to enjoy having the entire Lemmy experience, where I could read all types of content.

EDIT: during this time, maybe some people judge members because the instance. And I dont like that feel if someone think "oh look this dude, is from lemmy.ml, he is extremist communist, for sure". However, I'm not. Im just a normal guy without any politic side.

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[–] [email protected] 78 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (5 children)

lemmy.ml is an easy one to ignore. People just signing up for Lemmy hear that it's run by the Lemmy devs so they think it's probably one of the best instances, then learn about the devs' political proclivities after the fact.

But other than that, your choice of instance can reflect your personality. It says something about you if you're on startrek.website or sh.itjust.works. So some instances can be used to easily identify red flags.

For example, I'm on lemmy.world which means I'm a milquetoast NPC with no personality.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I have an alt account on sh.itjust.works for whenever lemmy.world is down. I'd love to know what you dislike about them so I can determine whether or not I should have a different alt instance. I'm pretty OOTL when it comes to instance drama

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Oh, no, sorry. I didn't mean there's anything wrong with either of those instances I listed. Just that if you're on them it probably means you like Star Trek or technology.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Sh.itjust.works isn't supposed to be about technology, although I could see how you might get that impression based on the banner picture or name. I mean there's definitely a lot of tech people but that's also true of Lemmy as a whole.

It's just a general purpose server, probably with mostly North American users due to the location. And also an especially high concentration of French Canadians

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I cant stop myself from reading your comments in imqtiepies voice..

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

God bless and welcome to the BDC

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

Oh, I had no idea. Thanks for correcting me so I don't keep spreading my lies and filth. :D

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Out of curiosity, could you elaborate on what being a member of sh.itjust.works says about one's personality?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

I assumed it was a technology-centric instance so figured it was for tech enthusiasts, but I have since been corrected.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

To be honest I think your personality sounds pretty based 😄

Have a good day!

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

this dont make sense for me, but I guess I need to understand your view. As I said, I dont think too much about the instance ... And imo dont reflect nothing about me since this is just internet and dont reflect my thoughts. I can be what I want here, nobody knows if im lying or not. I can be one of the brothers of Bradd Pitt and probably some people believe on this lie.

Now I'm understanding some people have some wars between some instances and block some instances. At this point I'm more and more confused tbh. But yeah, ty for your opinion

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago

It's usually not that users block instances because only certain apps can do that. It's just that not every instance federates with every other instance. In the case of lemmy.world you can go to lemmy.world/instances and scroll to the bottom to see which instances they don't federate with. Not federating means that lemmy.world is not "listening" to these instances and as a lemmy.world user you're therefor not hearing from those people either. If some other instance defederates lemmy.world it means that you can still see posts and comments from the users of that instance but they can't see yours.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 6 months ago

Why? Isn’t world refusing to defederate from threads?