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I want to take back 'Retard'. Because I want it to apply to things that are infuriatingly stupid, instead of it being used as a derogatory term towards special needs people.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The whole thing is ridiculous. "Mental retardation" was a technical, medical term.

People started getting offended because it was being used as an insult. They didn't understand that no matter what you name this condition, people will use it as an insult.

That's what happened with the medical terms "idiot" and "imbecile" as well.

Even the term "special" got usurped. Remember when Obama slipped and made a joke about himself being in the Special Olympics?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

"Dumb" and "lame" fall into that category as well. People who cannot speak aren't stupid. People who cannot use their legs aren't necessarily a bummer.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

The term for this is "the euphemism treadmill". Basically every word we have for someone being unintelligent was at one point a medical term and for 100s or 1000s of years human beings have been making the same lame joke with whatever the current word is. We can get mad at people for doing it, but history shows it's guaranteed to happen anyway.