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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Her old man may have threatened to beat her

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Given the fact that he's a staunch believer that women should stay in violent marriages instead of divorcing, you may be right.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Her father's involved in this now, too?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No. "Old man" is an old colloquialism for spouse

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Huh. When did that happen? Etymonline isn't helpful here. Maybe it's regional or something? Thanks!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The term has been around since the 40s and 50s. As too regional no it was/is nationwide. More likely cultural. The youth of those days were more accuztomex to it than their parents

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Must be regional or something else because I’ve never heard “old man” used in any other context than as a father. I’ve lived in Florida and the west coast and traveled all over the US for context.

“The ‘ol’ ball and chain” is used for spouse, unfortunately it’s usually used for women.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Guess you are just too young to have heard it since it began so long ago. Even been on television enough for most people to have heard it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I’m in my 40s, so it must be quite an old thing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

At that age you should have heard it at least once in your life. Dunno maybe the 20 year difference between us is enough to prevent that kind of exposure

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

My old man
He's a singer in the park
He's a walker in the rain
He's a dancer in the dark
We don't need no piece of paper
From the city hall
Keeping us tied and true
No, my old man
Keeping away my blues