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I was thinking of creating an anonymous ticketmaster account using public wifi since they block VPNs and just have them email me updates, but they required a phone number for the sign up so I scrapped that idea.

Edit: I decided to sign up for songkick as someone else here mentioned. It seems pretty polished and its entire purpose is concert discovery. It never asked for any unnecessary extra information either such as first and last name and phone number, just an email and a password and boom.

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Actually it's super easy.

Step 1: be poor

Step 2: come to terms that you don't have, and likely will never have, enough disposable no income to afford 50 dollar tickets to a concert

Bonus optional step 3: be poor enough that you'll be unlikely to live in a city where musicians will come, even if you found some money. Then you definitely won't have gas money to drive there and see them. :)

It's fool proof.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Even better, the tickets are nowhere near $50 most of the time anymore

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

I remember buying concert tickets for me and my gf for under $20. For both.

Fuck Ticketmaster.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Depends on the artist and venue. I very rarely pay 50€ or more. 20-35 is my usual price range.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Being poor is sad. The are always cheap or free local performances, they're pretty cool. Also, I come from !fuckcars to tell you to get a bike.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Free perhaps, not really local. I love an hour from the nearest city. Lol.

I do have a bike... but it's more reserved for riding up and down my own road for weight loss purposes. My county is rural, and does not have side walks or bike lanes, and the nearest store to me 15 miles. I am not capable of making of that ride, even if it were safe to do so.

But in principle, I fully agree. Fuck cars, fuck car culture, and fuck the governments for not doing more to make bikes a feasible option.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

the nearest store to me is 15 miles. I am not capable of making that ride

Shitty bike infrastructure aside, depending on what your local geography is like (sorry if you're in a very hilly area) you might be surprised how quickly you can build up to that if you make it your goal.

I'm fat, in my 30s, and until just about this time last year I had basically never ridden a bike (rode one a little bit as a kid, took the training wheels off, did a couple quick laps around an empty parking lot, then didn't touch one again for 20-some years, I would not really have counted myself as someone who could ride a bike with those credentials) and I recently did my personal longest bike ride of over 17 miles. I haven't been trying too hard, I get out maybe once or twice a week if I'm lucky, took basically the whole winter and a good chunk of the spring off from riding, and I just try (not always successfully) to push myself a little harder every time I get out.

I still have a long ways to go, that ride was mostly flat, if I come across any significant hill I'm still mostly getting off halfway and walking the rest of the way up, and I was definitely feeling pretty beat-up by the end, but I'm pretty impressed with the progress I made over the last year, especially since I don't really feel like I had to put in a whole lot of effort to get here.

Doesn't do much for being able to use your bike for actual transportation if the roads aren't bike friendly (and I feel that, I'm in a semi-rural area myself, if it weren't for the fact that I live very close to a decent bike trail that goes a long way in either direction and even links up with a few other trails, I wouldn't feel comfortable riding more than about a half mile from my house with the way roads are near me) but it does still open up your options a bit. I'm starting to bring my bike places with me and using it to get around once I'm there and looking into bike sharing options for when I go on longer trips and can't bring my bike with me.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Try songkick.com or bandsintown.com to watch for upcoming shows. You can track artists, venues, and cities. Song kick is more flexible for tracking multiple cities. They have mobile apps or just plain old email alerts.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you connect songkick to last.fm you will get notifications for any artists you listen to, without explicitly following each one.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Second this. Every few months, I go on songkick and look through all the artists dropping by my city and nearby areas for the next 3 months, then buy tickets for whatever shows I’m interested in from there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

This but I just gave them my email to let me know when bands I like are in my area. Super easy to use and very reliable. Even has tiny shows in community centers listed for me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I use Bandsintown and while it's worked well most of the time I've encountered a few screw ups. Always confirm before buying tickets

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It usually goes "Cool! That band is gonna... Oh it was last week... Fuck..."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Followed by "who are the cool bands now?"

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

I subscribe to email newsletters of local venues and production companies as well as a few of my favorite bands.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Most bands I care about have a website and an email distribution list. Most venues I enjoy also send out their upcoming events by email.

Now excuse me, there is a cloud I must go yell at.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Yup this is the way.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What makes you think I'm willing to pay to stand in a room full of people?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I went to a concert once, I am glad to announce that I'm willing to pay not to stand in a room full of people

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Their website. I don't have that many favorite music artists. Checking them out once a year to see that they won't be performing anywhere close to me satisfies this desire 100%.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I dont, lol.

I only ever listen to stuff online and then buy it if I really enjoy it.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I hate concerts. I don’t want to be hard of hearing later in life. Drinks cost too much. Bathrooms have a line and smell awful. Thousands of people.

I’ve been to 5 or so in my life and each time I regret it and hate the whole experience. Even artists I really like. They just sound better in a quiet studio.

I don’t understand the appeal. Can someone explain it to me please?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Some artists perform really well live. My first concert was Rush when I was 14 and that was amazing. Also they sell earplugs for concerts that lower the DB to a safe level while still maintaining clarity. You can always pregame too so you don’t spend too much on drinks

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Being surrounded by a bunch of people that are all excited about the same thing as you can be a really great experience for some people. It can make you feel like you're a part of a community. Add in music you really like, some friends or people you might meet, perhaps a mind-altering substance of some sort, and for a lot of people, that's a really fun time. If you just generally don't like dealing with people though, yeah, it's not gonna be your thing.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Being around the people who enjoy the same thing as you and having a good time together. It's a social event.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I love the efforts you all go through to ensure you never lump reddit and lemmy in with the rest of is peers.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Neither Reddit nor lemmy meet the actual requirements of social media.

  1. Knowing the people you are talking to. Both Reddit and lemmy are anonymous
  2. Status updates on some sort of timeline.

Lemmy and Reddit are forums of forums, and if you want to get more specific they’re link aggregators. Nobody ever called the car forum you visited to ask for car help β€œsocial media” because it wasn’t and still isn’t. Same applies to lemmy and Reddit.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

"I'm not on social media just (insert social media company name).

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

BandsInTown

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Browse the event listings of venues i frequent

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Yep they often have mailing lists.

And Bandcamp if the artists are on there.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

I don't. Thanks for reminding me that I should check from time to time. I usually used to use goout.net.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I use bandsintown.com

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

My wife tracks them for me. I'm not a fan of live concerts. But my wife enjoys them, so she actively searches for concerts in our area and notifies me when a band we both like is passing through.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

When I have anywhere near enough time or money free to worry about shit like that I start googling it and then maybe 8 months later I can make something happen.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I receive tons of marketing emails from companies like Ticketmaster, LiveNation (or whatever it's called, etc, because I've bought tickets online from them in the past. I don't mark them as spam because I want to catch shows that interest me. Oh, right, someone mentioned that venues also send emails. I get those, too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

That's a problem. I used to get news almost immediately from Reddit. Now I am a bit stuck on that front and so far there is no reasonable alternative.

For example, I like to follow chess news. I stumbled upon a piece of news on the wider internet that Hans Nieman and Magnus Carlsen had resolved their dispute. It wasn't very much reported on, so I checked old.reddit/r/chess to see what's going on. The first detailed thread on the matter had been opened and active, like, 5 minutes after the announcement.

At this point, nothing on the internet can compete with this.

It is kind of the same with world news and Ukraine war coverage.

So, yeah. After getting off of Reddit, I have lost the ability to be quickly informed about news. Mastodon is not much help and I don't want to fuel Elon Twitter's BS, so I am stuck.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Our local radio station has all the shows within that genres of music they play, on thier website. I also somehow got signed up for emails from the only venue in town that would host the other genre I listen to.

I wouldn't be interested in much else. I'm not heart broken to not learn Taylor Swift is comming to town...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Pick up the local paper / zines / newsletter and check the concert listings.

My hometown used to have a message board for concerts, too, but it was small enough that one person (or the same twenty people, in reality) could go to every single concert in town, because there were never more than two in a given week.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

favorite music artists going on tour?

In Spotify or Youtube they sound way better than live. Also I don't have to stand in corwded environment and enjoy overpriced snacks & beer.

I just don't go to live music concerts.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I don't, and last.fm is kind of social media... but I think last.fm could help you with this.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Oh I get all of the information I need about that from having kids, being 40+ and being an introvert. Ticketmaster prices help too.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

spotify usually has a notification for that, or it'll be on the artists page

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you use YouTube for music it tells you when the band you are listening to is doing a concert

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Songkick.com

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

I follow artists I like on twitter without having an account, I use the Squawker app for that.

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