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I have noticed that I interact a lot more in Lemmy than I ever did in any social media. Let it be Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter... I am used to be the lurker, but here for some reason things are different. Wonder if more people feel like I do.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago (4 children)

Not really, the post quality is low and the commenters are overly assured and aggressive.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I agree. On Lemmy, saying the wrong thing on the wrong community is like stepping on a landmine. The ideological differences are wild. Maybe I just need to get used to this and block the worse communities. It certainly feels very hostile. Especially from leftwing users and communities.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I consider myself to be moderate left. But I may as well be a fascist in the eyes of some for pointing out flaws that are inherent in utopic thinking. I think social media only rewards those at the extremes with serious engagement now and these echo filters drive people to holding ever more extreme views.

I think a lot of people spend so much time online and so little time engaging with their local communities that they lose sight of how their opinions actually map out in the world and the nuances of how society actually engages and compromises. This is true of the left and the right.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago

Well said. I suppose we can all be guilty of this, and this is why I try to engage with people of with many different ideological positions. It's not always comfortable to confront out own beliefs and biases, but I do think it makes us more well-rounded.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

But I may as well be a fascist in the eyes of some for pointing out flaws that are inherent in utopic thinking.

I've seen a lot of overreaction to mild criticism lately as well.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Is that how it is on .world?? On my instance and the ones I browse I find it to be ten times higher quality and massively less aggressive than Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Lord, you and I must have been on different forms of reddit if you think the users over here are more overly assured and aggressive than reddit. Personally, I find most conversations so much more productive here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Yes I'm seeing the same sentiment bubble up in multiple comments here. I don't relate at all..

It's been a few years since I encountered any meaningful discussion on Reddit that wasn't immediately polluted by screeching buffoons. I've yet to see that here.

I hope this trend personally experiencing continues!